Category: Q&As

How to Encourage My Toddler’s Speech Development

Published : Apr 15, 2025
By Dr. Ana Aznar

“How to improve toddler speech, I’m worried that my son is not on the right track with words” 

mother bathing her cheerful infant baby with a soft sponge with foam bubbles in a bathtub

You need to remember that each child develops at a different pace. Some children are early chatters whereas others need a bit more time to speak. If you are worried, discuss it with your son’s doctor.  

Typically, children start babbling around 6 months of age. By the time they are 12 months they start saying single words (e.g., “dada“, “dog“, “water“), and around 24 months they start to put very simple sentences together (e.g., “more water”, “mummy more”). 

Things you can do to encourage him to speak: 

  • Talk, talk, talk. Talk to him about what you are doing, the things you see when you are at the park, or what other people around you are doing. Describe what you are doing while you are out and about, while you give him a bath, get him dressed and prepare his breakfast.  
  • Read to him. Read to him and point to the pictures while you do it.  
  • Give him choices. For example, ask him if he prefers a banana or a yoghurt while you hold both in your hands.  
  • Sing and listen to children’s songs and lullabies. Those that have actions are particularly good, for example: “Row, row, row your boat”, “Pat-a-cake”, and “Incy, wincy spider”.  
  • Play. Hide one of his toys and encourage him to find it, saying things like: “Where is your train?”, “Here is the train! You found it!”. Play hide and seek and use the opportunity to name places where he can be: “Where is Jamie? Is he under the table? Behind the sofa? In the closet?”. Or play with his toys and mention their names, colours, and shapes.  
  • Add one word to what your child says. For example, when your child says “Car”, you say “Yes, that is a blue car”.  
  • Praise him whenever he says a new word or a new sentence.  
  • Do not critize him or tell him off for getting the wrong word.  
  • Get your child’s attention by saying their name at the start of a sentence. When you ask them a question, give them plenty of time to answer.  

I hope you find this information useful. I wish you and your little one all the very best.  

Love,  

Ana 

Dr Ana Aznar 

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Comments
Dr. Ana Aznar
2025-03-31 19:41:20
Qué ilusión tu mensaje, Pia! Gracias a tí por leernos.
Pia Satrustegui
2025-03-28 10:13:56
Querida Ana,
Maravilloso artículo sobre la serie Adolescentes y consejos de gran ayuda en una etapa tan complicada de nuestros hijos , tan desprotegidos frente a las nuevas tecnologías.Es una ayuda tremenda para nosotros. Muchas gracias
Armani
2025-03-06 09:31:35
This is ethically wrong and I don't think it's worth the damage it will ultimately cause to the relationship. And the issues it will cause for the one being spied on. Just don't do it.
Meghan
2025-02-07 21:26:19
Is there a printable version of the article? I am a school based mental health professional and would like to share it with parents.
J
2025-02-03 10:52:04
This is such a great writeup. I think too often we get caught in a rutt of trying to categorise everything. Our daily lives are kind of dictated by categories and labels, certainly in a digital world.

I'd imagine this is quite deteremental for a childs development in the long run as nothing stays the same forever, and we shouldn't really be making these categorisations, especially towards our children.

Just live life, sometimes you'll have to be the parent that's the shoulder to cry on. The week after you may have to raise your voice a little when everyone is in a rush and you're trying to get your children's shoes on.

Just balance it all out, don't be too self critical and pick up on what your child wants and needs.

Again, great writeup!
Dr. Ana Aznar
2024-09-13 12:51:46
Dear Robert,
Thank you so much for your comment. I totally get what you mean. It is always difficult to have kids living with you, wanting to support them and their parents but at the same time not wanting to step in anyone's toes. If there's anything we can do to support you and your family, please do not hesitate to get in touch with us.

Ana
Robert Eisenbart
2024-09-10 00:43:07
Great Article! I'm a retired FNP. Years ago I taught a STEP program to parents via family court cases. I now have a daughter and her man disciplining three children 4, 8, and 10. The 10 year old has ADHD and my personal diagnosis is she's also Oppositional/Defiant. I believe the OD came from harsh discipline. All they seem to do is punish and threaten physical punishment. They say positive reinforcement didn't work however they tried it for about 2 months and then went back to punishment. I can't reason with them as "they are the parents"!! is all I hear. They all live with me and have since the oldest was about 2. Sadly I can see the other 2 developing issues like anxiety and aggression as well. Trying to show them another side of adult supervision when I have them but frustrating.
Dr. Ana Aznar
2024-09-02 20:48:07
Really glad you found it useful! Thank you for being here and for your comment.

Ana
avenue17
2024-08-30 11:17:25
I doubt it.
Dr. Ana Aznar
2024-05-17 09:55:58
Hi Donna,
sO great to have you here! Totally agree that Zara is great! What other topics would you like us to discuss?
Ana
Donna
2024-05-17 09:49:36
Love Zara’s ways of teaching for both parents & kids! Also so helpful. We want more!! (Please!) :D
Ana Aznar
2024-05-08 07:24:31
We are glad you found the content useful! Many thanks for being here.
Ana
Cristoj
2024-04-09 18:20:19
Great article!!!
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